Anyone who’s ever downloaded a dating app knows that not all apps are created equal. Some are more, let’s say, forward, while others are straight-up, hands-down sex apps.
Of course, if you’re in need of some no-strings-attached fun (it is the holidaze, after all), that might be *just* what you’re looking for. So if a low-stakes, local fling in your hometown, your very first threesome experience, or a quest for a kink-positive, BDSM-style hookup is on your wish list, here are the best sex apps to peruse now.
Ah, the app that started it all (aside from Grindr). The app sparks “more than 26 million matches per day,” they say, so some of them have to be purely sexual.
Though you’re probably already familiar, I’ll review the basics, anyway: See someone you’re not into, swipe left. Find someone you want to get down with? Swipe right. Once you match, either member can start the chat. Pro tip: Meet in public first, then take it from there.
Pure won’t prompt you for a ton of personal details when you register. You only have to provide a name, a photo, an email address, and select whether you’re interested in males or females since its goal is to help you find someone to hookup with and quickly-like, really quickly.
The anonymity of it all-if it doesn’t put you off-might be especially appealing if you’re new to the hookup or threesome game and don’t want a potentially clumsy first-time encounter to follow you out the bedroom door
In fact, according to the app, “there’s no such thing as an account. There’s a request with a photo that disappears in an hour, there are chats that are deleted in an hour” so that once you get what you wanted from the app, you can leave without a trace. How. pure.
Once you do register for your non-account, you can immediately check out other users within a 500-km radius who are also online. For a little more perspective, within my first five minutes on Pure, I had more than 11 interested users who wanted to chat. on a Tuesday at 1:52 p.m. Not a bad pool for a lunch-break rendezvous.
One note: The app is limiting in that it doesn’t allow you to swipe though non-binary or both male and female-identifying users.
Feeld stands out because of its unique format: It doesn’t require users to provide their actual names (though they must connect their accounts to an existing Facebook profile), and they can match with either singles or existing couples of any sexual orientation to form a threesome (or a larger group) using the app’s group-chat feature.
Btw, if you don’t find anyone who piques your interest on the sex app, you can (again, anonymously) invite your crush to join and finally make that fantasy a reality. Kinda ballsy in a badass way, no?
The app, geared for heterosexual users, prompts them to fill out a survey so the interface can match singles based on similar interests (think: “What do you do when your phone dies?” and “Do you find it easy to say no?”). Its main attraction? It matches users based on exact location, too.
While many a long-term relationship has been born from Tinder since 2012, there’s no denying that it’s become a go-to hookup hub, too (if not instead)
So, picture this: You’re already out and don’t feel like going home just yet. Just open Blendr-it will let you know who at the bar is up for some fun.
With security as its major selling point (though it’s a free app), Disckreet lets you take complete control of what you’re sharing with other users. The app presumably hopes to be a solace for sexting fans who’ve been burned by revenge porn or who worry their partners are showing their intimate photos to friends (not cool!).
